Mary J Blige Makes "Mr. Wrong" Seem Irresistible

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Summary For Non Readers: Mary J Blige's song Mr. Wrong is a song that validates the negative mentalities of Black women in this era. Black women are already confused by the definition of what a "real man" is. This song makes Black women seem like horny animals who live in heat constantly and can be made submissive through sex even when being abused. Unfortunately it seems to be a story many Black women are addicted to "playing out". It also reinforces the negative notion that Black men who try to be good men are "no fun" and boring. It also leads negative men to believe that as long as they sexually satisfy a woman they can string her along and be abusive.........Shame on Mary for this one.

I'm not going to make this a long post, but I must say I HATE this song. I've always been a big Mary J Blige fan over the years and have all her CD's, but she really lowered her standards to make money on this one.  Here we have a 40 year-old woman singing to a much younger demographic and telling them it's OK to be with "Mr. Wrong". Not only is it OK to be with "Mr. Wrong", but if the "love making" sex is good the song sends the notion you are dealing with a deep dilemma and it's understandable that it's hard to let him go.

When do we stop feeding the notion that rocky relationships make relationships deeper, and that struggle equals passion within a relationship and creates an emotionally intensity that connects two people? The worst part becomes when the notion that good sex can make an abusive relationship worth hanging on to. It's no wonder many Black women of this era seem drained and "ran-through". The only thing a rocky relationship adds is years to a person's body and soul. Often times a woman who has been "ran-through" searching for love while being self-sacrificing to a negative man has an ENERGY of being milked of all her innocence, she becomes like a doormat to walk on. In the subconscious mind of the man she's dating the lack of respect the woman has for herself causes him to "spit" on her with his actions.

Let's take a quick look at the ENERGY of some of Mary's lyrics in the song Mr. Wrong.

First let me mention how ridiculous it is for Mary J Blige to do a song with Drake who is 24 years old. Of course this speaks of "the signs of the time". Music is not spiritual or made to move you in this era. Music is simply made to sell in this day and age. Drake apparently is on top now and so pairing Mary J Blige with Drake is simply a money move and designed to attract attention. Even though she could make a better more passionate song with a Maxwell, John Legend or even have Lupe on the hook, they are not on the top of the charts right now.

Protecting Black Men from the "Growing" Confusion Around Them!

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I love The Creator, he is in full control of me right now. In being in control of me (because I am apart of him), he has led me to intense research in spirituality. The Creator will constantly work on you in many ways if you allow him to. It's the most freeing experience and feeling ever. Especially when you realize he is unlike the oppressive religions that seem to represent him. It's the reason I'm "spiritually religious".

Now you saw the video and I just wonder what people feel? I know that there is fear in many people, confusion and mistrust when they think of Black men taking on this ENERGY. Would you believe that's the goal.

The more confusion created in the world helps to break people down spiritually, when a person's broken spiritually they will seek any aid, solution or materialistic artifact, to bring calmness to their soul.

Since this is about the attack on Black men let me use an example of confusion many of them are dealing with.

We can see how materialistic gains have given Black men the illusion of comfort even when their souls are not at ease. They are in a spiral of confusion. They are constantly bombarded with the notion that obtaining materialistic things will wipe away their pain. The pain of how they were born, the pain of where they were born and the pain of seeming like they are less than the other men of society.

Has this helped them?

No it's made their life worst. This is not something they will tell others. This is something they're taught to "mask" in order to be men. Many blanket their lives with drugs, alcohol and women with empty souls to cope with their life. You have to be able to see-through these types of facades. Black men need healing and direction so that they can create their own.

As of now many are mind control victims who constantly try to imitate what they're fed, even when it hurts and contributes to their spiritual demise.

They have Become Mentally Confused!

Ask yourself what's an ENERGY that's always radiated from Black men? Particularly as the years have progressed.